Better words/works for the New Year

To err in words has been one of my long-standing weaknesses. I guess some would share the same struggle with me.

To speak less words of encouragement when I actually meant to say more. To utter words of harshness when it shouldn’t be. To withhold words of care and concern and choose to spike. Too much impulsiveness, too little thoughtfulness.

I cried when I read somebody’s MSN name the other day. I thought, “I wish I could say…” I’m still not saying a word.

Sometimes some of us speak in codes, hoping that the other party understands. Most of the time they never will.

Sometimes we are afraid to show that we care because of fear. We end up appearing cold and indifferent.

Sometimes we hope to patch things up but we thought our words didn’t matter/we are afraid that it wouldn’t be well received/ we don’t wish to put down our pride, blah blah blah…whatever the reason is.

Consider your friends to be your best-kept treasure. If you don’t mend your broken relationship now, when would you do it? The longer the time lags, the more awkward it is. Would you rather wait until the person is long gone? Would you prefer to say years later, “ I shouldn’t have….if only I could...” ?

Friends, let us say more of what we meant to say and give more of what we ought to give for the people who are dear to our hearts this year (on another note, you can show kindness to those you don’t know too). It takes a pint of courage, mixed with wisdom and guidance from above. It is OK if you receive nothing in return. The spirit of giving (mind you, it's not limited to every December) would lead to a better tomorrow.

And possessing such an attitude would be one of my New Year resolutions. =]